Philip Hoke Gresham, 92, of Demorest, formerly of Duluth, died March 1, 2024. Born August 20, 1931, he was a stoic man—a U.S. Navy veteran, business owner, and an independent thinker.
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He grew up working a dusty farm share near Winder, the second oldest of nine children and the eldest son. In his early years of working the soil, he mastered an innate ability to grow things.
He had a keen intellect, had political viewpoints, and strong sons.
He knew education was the pathway to a different sort of life. Beyond his rural beginnings, he yearned for more. Hitchhiking from Winder to Atlanta to work at the Varsity during high school, he began to dream of a college degree. After high school, he joined the U.S. Navy, serving on the U.S.S. Yorktown, before enrolling at the Georgia Institute of Technology via the GI Bill.
He met Dorothy Stedham in Atlanta in the mid-1950s; they married before he graduated. Fatherhood was not far behind, with a first-born son arriving in September of 1956, before he donned the mortar board and black gown after earning a degree in Civil Engineering in 1958.
That sheepskin changed the trajectory of his life, with an initial career at Lockheed, he then became a contractor in the defense industry, going to California, Texas, Florida, and finally back to Georgia. Later, as an independent businessman, he built houses and taught his sons to wield a hammer, imprinting a formidable work ethic in all three. He worked until age 87; his final assignment provided engineering support to Metal Building Construction.
As long as he had access to a plot of earth, he cultivated a garden. A pragmatic man, he appreciated beauty, planting Dahlias among the vegetables he gave freely to family and friends.
He survived a stroke, cancer, and other medical challenges in his later years.
He lived without a television set for a season. He visited the public library, devouring several books weekly, reading the daily newspaper, and listening to the Braves on the radio.
For many years, he marked off the first week of September as “out-of-office,” reserving a condo at Silver Dunes in Destin, Fla. He wasn’t much on the beach, but cherished hosting his family for these vacations, cooking, and monitoring the Weather Channel so the group could experience one stellar day on a charter boat.
Fishing – deep sea and farm pond – were mainstays throughout his life. He took his sons and grandchildren on a fishing pilgrimage to a farm pond near Winder. Thanks to his insistence on these trips, his sons and grandchildren continue this hobby in all iterations.
He was known for his cooking, especially barbecue and Brunswick stew, extending abundant hospitality from his kitchen, backyard, or driveway. He also led the July 4th cooking team at the Neely Farm for many years.
He was heavily involved in politics. He ran for local and state offices, never winning but always standing firm on his beliefs.
He was preceded in death by parents Hoke Hamilton and Ora Wall Gresham; wife Dorothy Stedham Gresham; and seven of his nine siblings, Bessie Sue Stell, Paul Wesley Gresham, Sybil McDaniel, Jerome Gresham, Owen “Pancho,” Gresham, Patricia Faye Thornton and Linda Baumer. Also preceding him were brother-in-law Erwin Baumer and a beloved friend and political ally, the late Howard Hoffman.
He is survived by one sister, Sarah Peeples; three sons John [Karen] Gresham of Sautee-Nacoochee, Robert Gresham of Suwanee, William “Bill” [Lane] Gresham of Clarkesville; six grandsons and one granddaughter, Brad Gresham, Jason Gresham, Wes [Maggie] Gresham, Charlie Gresham, Joseph Gresham, Jackson [Sarah] Gresham and Perry Gresham; and five great-grandchildren, Finn, Maverick, Caroline, Memphis, and Carson.
The family thanks Mimi and the dedicated Magnolia Hills Assisted Living staff for making his final season peaceful and safe.
Memorials in his name may be directed to the Georgia Institute of Technology. Checks should be made payable to the Georgia Tech Foundation, Inc., 760 Spring Street NW., Suite 400, Atlanta, Ga. 30308. To make a gift online, visit www.mygeorgiatech.gatech.edu/giving/make-a-gift.
Visitation is set for 2-4 p.m., Tuesday, March 12, with a brief service to follow at Hillside Memorial Chapel. Arrangements are in the care and professional direction of Hillside Memorial Chapel and Gardens, Clarkesville, Ga.
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